Disappointments From Relationships

Disappointments From Relationships

How can you get pass the disappointment from failed relationships, whether romantic, friendship or family?

By getting rid of your agenda...

Disappointments stems from expectations. As long as you expect anything from others, you will inevitably be letdown.

You will forever live with disappointments. This is a certainty.

As long as you see relationships as the source of your happiness, dependence or fulfilment, you will always face disappointment.  

Though relationships may bring you blissful moments, be sure, the more you chase after these pleasures, the less impact it has over time.  

Because the expectations you placed on others are far too great than what they can deliver.

A relationship that was never meant to be cannot satisfy.

In fact, very few humans, next to none will ever satisfy you.

No human being on this planet can fulfil the bottomless well of another.

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If you examine your fellow human beings, you’ll see they often get into relationships, whilst never having examine their own mind. If they can’t understand themselves – how can they understand another.

A mind that is a stranger to the self will forever be confused by the soul of another.

This is why the number one divorce reason worldwide is “unreasonable behaviour” or “irreconcilable differences.”

No Human Can Ever Truly Be In A Meaningful Relationship Without First Understanding The Human Mind.

Two people, projecting their desires and illusions onto one another, hoping for happiness — but neither ever truly seeing the other as they are.

Understand: Most relationships are attempts to numb loneliness, fill internal voids, or create a temporary illusion of happiness. But no person is here to fulfil your cup — just as you should never bear the burden of filling someone else’s. That is a burden you do not want.

Nobody on this planet, on an emotional level, can you bring you anything. This is the heartfelt realization you must internalize.  

What Is The Best Type Of Relationship?

Seek someone grounded in reality – emotionally stable, wholesome, practical and capable of clear reasoning. Depth of character matters more than intensity of feeling; anything else is merely icing on top of the cake.

See people for who they really are from early signs of repeatable habits and traits. For an example, a person who acts passive aggressive will again do the same in the future.

Understand this clearly: the mind idealizes. It does not see people as they are, but as it wishes them to be. Wisdom in relationships begins by seeing through things.

~ Disappointments from Relationships ~

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